Self-Care Is Not Selfish Scented Soy Candle
Materials & Care
Materials & Care
What's Inside
100% natural soy wax in a reusable 9 oz glass vessel — when the candle's done, the jar starts its second life holding pens, plants, or feelings. Three scents: Cinnamon Vanilla, Apple Harvest, and Sea Salt + Orchid. 50–60 hours of burn time, which works out to a lot of self-care per dollar. Non-toxic, eco-friendly, and ASTM safety compliant.
Candle Care
Trim the wick to ¼″ before each burn, and on the first burn let the wax melt all the way to the edges so it doesn't tunnel. Keep it within sight while burning, away from kids, pets, and anything flammable. The candle is for calm, not excitement.
How It's Made
Made to order in 2–5 business days, then shipped — about 10 days door to door. 10% of proceeds donated to 988 and The Trevor Project.
Returns
60-day returns; damaged arrivals replaced, no questions, no guilt.
-
Estimated delivery: Sep 13 - Sep 17
Couldn't load pickup availability
Self-care is not selfish — it's necessary. And sometimes it smells really good. This scented soy candle features the iconic "Self-Care Is Not Selfish" design and is the perfect mental health gift for yourself or someone you love who deserves to slow down and breathe. A meaningful addition to any self-care ritual. Every order supports the 988 Lifeline and The Trevor Project.
Your payment information is processed securely. We do not store credit card details nor have access to your credit card information.
Discover more in our FAQs
How do I cancel or edit an order?
How do I cancel or edit an order?
We understand that mistakes happen. If you need to edit your order information, such as the delivery address or contact number, please contact our customer service as soon as possible.
Here’s what you can do:
- Contact our customer service via email address, at hello@selfcareshirts.com.
- Have your order number ready when contacting customer service.
- We cannot guarantee changes to orders after 24 hours of placement. This is because orders may be processed once received
How can I track my order?
How can I track my order?
You can track your order by checking the shipping confirmation email, which contains a tracking number and a link to the courier's website. Alternatively, log in to your account on our website, navigate to "My Orders," and click on the tracking link provided for your order.
What if there is a problem with my order?
What if there is a problem with my order?
If you encounter an issue with your order, please get in touch with our customer service team at hello@selfcareshirts.com as soon as possible. You can reach us via email or through the contact form on our website. Provide your order number and a brief description of the problem so we can assist you quickly. If your product is damaged, please send a photo via email so we can assist you.
I didn't receive all of my order?
I didn't receive all of my order?
If part of your order is missing, please check the shipping confirmation email to see if the items were sent separately. If all items should have arrived together or if you have concerns, contact our customer service team with your order number. We’ll investigate and resolve the issue promptly.
Recently viewed products
That clip would not load. Email me at hello@selfcareshirts.com and I will send it over.
Every design is hand-drawn by me, start to finish.
- Drawn by one person — me, Alyssa. Every line and letter is mine
- Printed on demand in the USA with eco-friendly inks
- 60-day returns, because sizing is a guess sometimes Read the returns policy
- Every order supports the 988 Lifeline and The Trevor Project
About this design
Self-care is not selfish — it's necessary. And sometimes it smells really good. This scented soy candle features the iconic "Self-Care Is Not Selfish" design and is the perfect mental health gift for yourself or someone you love who deserves to slow down and breathe. A meaningful addition to any self-care ritual. Every order supports the 988 Lifeline and The Trevor Project.
Material and care
Printed to order in the USA, so nothing sits in a warehouse waiting to be thrown out. Wipe gently with a clean, dry cloth when it needs it.
Shipping and returns
$3 standard shipping in the US, free on orders over $50. Made to order, so allow two to five business days before it ships. 60-day free returns on unworn items — if it is not right, I will make it right.
Every order supports the 988 Lifeline and The Trevor Project. $3,569 donated so far.
The piece is optional. The free resources aren't going anywhere.
Printables, a coloring app, a daily check-in and calm videos. No email required.
